One Happy Couple

We are celebrating five. Yes. Five years of marriage. It has been a nearly perfect marriage for a number of reasons. First of all, we have been married before and know what works and what does not. Secondly, we are older, wiser, and know what battles to fight and what are better left alone. The third component of our successful marriage is to keep short accounts. As soon as one of us realizes we’ve spoken harshly, or forgot something important, we quickly confess the wrong, forgive, and go on.

Jim had the perfect opportunity to accept my apology and forgive last night.That old irascible, selfish part of me reared its ugly head last night at dinner. I was irritated with Jim about something that is not worth repeating why, just know it wasn’t anything to get irritated about.

My attitude kept me from sleeping very well last night and I made an important discovery in the morning. I was really wrong in my irritation with Jim.

Why am I telling you this? Partly to let you know that though our marriage is close to perfect, it is not perfect. There are flaws in each of us–and because I know me, they seem really glaring at times.

I asked Jim to forgive me for my short temper and undeserved irritation and he quickly did.

I’m so glad God brought Jim into my life. He is wonderful. He is forgiving. And he is human. And so am I.

Wherever you are today, enjoy each moment. That’s what I’m going to do. Five years has gone by so quickly. I don’t know how many more anniversaries we’ll celebrate so I’m going to enjoy this day. This moment. And try next time, to let my irritation quickly go away. Adios!

Hibiscus flower. One of many to enjoy here in Mexico.