marriage after losing a spouse

North to Alaska!

By |2018-10-29T18:45:05-07:00August 3rd, 2018|Hope and Joy, Travels with Shirley|

Blending families can be challenging... Where are we going this time, you might ask. This time it’s a family cruise with fifteen of our blended family of 25.  We know once everyone is checked in and on board, it will be fine. We're heading north to Alaska! 

Run to Him (And Taste and See)

By |2018-10-27T19:21:43-07:00April 28th, 2017|Grief and Loss, Spiritual Reflections|

I discovered the terrible loss of a lifetime mate who was the father of my children, was far more difficult than any mountain we’d ever climbed. I remembered those words on the wall by the door in my childhood door: Blessed are you who run to Him.  I remembered, and believed. I worked through those lonely harsh days of loss—because grief is work—and began to breathe freely again, just like after a mountain climb and you get to the top.

We’re Married!

By |2018-10-22T16:27:18-07:00December 8th, 2016|Hope and Joy|

“I, Shirley, take you, Jim, to be my wedded husband . . .” Saturday, December 7 dawned cold and clear. I drove into the church parking lot in the early morning light. The ground was sprinkled with snow like powdered sugar; the temperature hovered in the low teens. There was no wind; it was a [...]

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