Grief and Loss

Three Thanksgivings

By |2018-11-23T10:32:43-08:00November 23rd, 2018|Grief and Loss, Thanksgiving memories|

There are many Thanksgivings I could write about, but I'm going to focus on three. Each one very precious. One..... The first Thanksgiving I'm recalling took place thirteen years ago on November 25, 2005 in a hospital room in Portland, Oregon. It was a quiet one with my first husband, Bill Rudberg. He was very ill [...]

Grandma’s Rolling Pin

By |2018-11-02T14:06:04-07:00November 2nd, 2018|Grief and Loss|

Grandma has been gone for more than forty years.  She listened to everything I wanted to tell her. Played games with me. Laughed at our silly jokes. When we talked, she focused completely on me--something special when growing up in a large family. What are your memories of your grandma, nana, nonnie, granny, or grammie?.....

Consider the Lily

By |2018-10-29T18:55:30-07:00August 31st, 2018|Grief and Loss, Hope and Joy|

I love the long days, longer twilight, and warm evenings of summer. But without anything I can do, the days shorten. I hear the crickets sing at night as I take one last stroll around our yard.  The days are marching toward a new season--and I can't stop the march.

For Jane

By |2018-10-29T18:54:03-07:00August 24th, 2018|Grief and Loss|

It's probably too much to expect being filled with joy right now, but my prayer is for anyone who is reading this that they will be filled with joy and peace.

Sunshine and Shadow

By |2018-10-29T18:37:02-07:00July 13th, 2018|Grief and Loss, Travels with Shirley|

That first afternoon after driving through the beautiful North Cascades, I felt a little sad and I wasn't sure why. Later, I realized it was because the first time I'd been on this road, I was with another husband more than a decade ago. It didn't mean I wasn't enjoying myself with Jim, it just meant I had a precious memory flit through my brain. Instead of pushing the sadness down, I took some time to remember and be sad

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